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Over the past two years I have gathered points of view on Wooster’s school situation from hundreds of conversations with members of the community.
This month I want to share what I have gathered specifically from those that are the closest thing the schools have to customers, the parents.
Disclaimer: These are my impressions, not statements of fact.
These are not my own points of view.
These are the most common and most vocal views I encountered.
None of these come from a single person and I will use no quotes.
The Current Situation: More Effort into Fewer Children
Children are a blessing when added to your life.
But being a parent has never been easy.
Many elderly community members I talked to felt that parenting is harder now than it has ever been.
Parents lean on the schools for help.
In terms of finances and time, children are a heavy investment that goes on for decades.
Parents want the best education for their children and the time and money they need to make that happen has increased over the years as well.
They have increasingly leaned on the schools to provide cost effective, time efficient education.
Time and Money are interchangeable but both have been in short supply for parents
You can trade money for time, or time for money.
Parents can buy more education for their children, but this results in less time with their children.
Parents can also spend more educational time with their children, but this comes with financial cost.
This balance has always been the way of the world but the cost in time or money has gotten higher.
It has become increasingly difficult to run a household and have a parent left over to dedicate to educating children.
That also means that parents have less time or money to dedicate to the schools.
The Parent’s Relationship with the Administration: Anxious and Frustrated
The main thing the parents seem to want from the district administration is security and fairness for their children.
Security for children at school remains one of the most important needs of parents.
Security for school children is provided in two major ways by the administration, security from outside threats and security from bullying.
Securing school facilities for children remains a top concern
Perhaps the most emotionally pressing need I heard about from parents is for the district administration to provide security for their children.
I was surprised to find some parents still anxious about facility security despite all of the measures taken by the school system to constantly improve that security.
I did find that these parents were concerned about the new reality of school security in the nation but did not point to specific problems with Wooster school’s security.
The resolution to bullying situations occasionally leaving parents feeling so unfairly treated that they are looking elsewhere for education.
The much more common and personal safety stories were about bullying a parent’s child had experienced.
Most parents I heard complaining about this felt that their problems were poorly handled by the administration.
This is not surprising because I doubt I would hear about stories that ended well, and there may be many of those.
I did note that most of these complaints were not complaints that their child had been seriously injured but rather that they had been treated unfairly, sometimes severely.
In fact, more than half the stories of complaint that I heard resulted in the parents seriously considering leaving the school system to attend nearby public districts, private schools, or online alternatives.
About half a dozen had already left or were leaving this coming school year.
The physical conditions at Cornerstone and Keen are seen as big problems, Melrose and the High school are small problems, Edgewood and Parkview seem good.
There were many complaints I heard from parents about physical conditions at certain school facilities.
I don’t recall a complaint about Edgewood at all, nor Parkview.
Cornerstone and Keen were mentioned often and sometimes with visible frustration.
Melrose and the high school were mentioned rarely and with different attitudes.
It seemed to me people mentioned Melrose with a tone of resignation because they didn’t expect much from it.
For the high school it seemed like people mentioned it with a tone of surprise because they expected it to be better.
Parents overwhelmingly mentioned district communications with them feel overwhelming and poorly targeted but they also mentioned this doesn’t feel like a critical issue.
Something I heard about a lot, was how the schools communicate with parents.
This one was odd, many mentioned feeling that the schools communicate poorly with parents.
However, when asked why they felt that way the common answer was that the schools communicate too much about things that don’t matter and not enough about things that do matter.
Parents felt overwhelmed with communications to the point that they either missed, or were anxious about missing, important information.
Anxiety and doubt is expressed about the coming change to elementary schools and what it will mean for parent’s time, finances, and sanity.
Another anxiety that was voiced a lot was doubts about the change away from K-4th neighborhood elementaries.
The anxiety I heard from parents tended to be slightly different from the concerns of the broader community on the same topic.
For parents the tension comes from moving children so much and needing to get more than one child to a spread of buildings flung all over the city, even at young ages.
I heard many concerns about traffic, release times, bussing schedules, the ability to send children walking, and splitting attention between PTOs.
These parents feel that this planned change will make their already difficult time or money sacrifices even more expensive.
Parents with special needs or other additional needs feel the district does a very good job, those with gifted children see difficulties.
On a positive note, I heard almost universal agreement that the district takes very good care of children that are significantly struggling.
Children that need official accommodations seem to have good stories and experiences.
One complaint I did hear sometimes is that the children that could thrive and excel in gifted programs had trouble getting the opportunities they needed.
These children often need their own accommodations because they have eccentricities of their own.
I heard that because of the way the system works, these children could not get help because their gifted abilities disqualified them for assistance.
Though rarely mentioned there is general feeling of surprise when parents learn what their school PTOs are expected to pay for.
One last point I heard rarely but it seems important to the relationship.
Those parents that were involved in PTO had strange stories about what the PTO was expected to pay for.
I will not relay any of those stories here because they would be easily identifiable to certain buildings and certain individuals, I do not want to hurt their working relationships with the administration.
However, I give you my word that all of these stories left me saying, “You would think the district would cover that.”
To which the response was always, “You would think!”
I heard these things only from a few current and former members of PTOs.
But from anyone in the know it was a universal reaction.
The Parent’s Relationship with the Educators: Grateful but Overwhelmed
In general parents were exceptionally thankful and supportive of educators as a whole.
Many mentioned that they knew what a challenge it is to deal with their own children and praised educators for dealing with entire classrooms, particularly at young ages.
Parents feel that educators live and a different world that makes it difficult for them to understand.
Something I heard from parents as a point of tension was a feeling of an invisible divider between the parent’s world and the educator’s world.
This was hard to pin down in conversations.
One parent mentioned feeling the need for a guide on how to join the school world as a new parent.
Parents felt educator jargon makes understanding them difficult and unintuitive.
Others felt that the educators had their own language that had to be learned.
Words like rubric, manipulatives, and paraprofessional are alien to most parents.
In explanation: a rubric is not a colored cube, a manipulative is a good thing, and a paraprofessional is very specifically not a professional expert.
The closest translation I can give you for each in order is: a grading sheet, a hands on learning tool, and a teacher’s aid.
Inconsistent work loads between grade levels left some parents confused and questioning their child’s educational or outside life progress.
Others found it confusing that their child would have too much homework one year and then too little homework the next.
[Yes, too little homework was something I heard more than once and have experienced with my own children]
Parents expect a gradual but steady increase in homework over years and are confused by work loads going backwards or ramping up unexpectedly.
Parents often form strong opinions about individual educators after over their children’s school year, for better or worse.
Parents were also very likely to share stories of both particularly good and particularly bad experiences they and their children had with educators.
Good experiences were life savers.
Bad experiences were torturous.
This hit particularly hard for parents since their children were with each teacher for most of a year of their child’s life.
It seemed to me that parents could tolerate bad experiences for their children better the older the children were.
On the flip side, parents seemed to me to be far more emotionally grateful for good experiences for their younger children.
Parents feel frustrated by not having the time or understanding to help support their children’s education, with math being the most difficult.
Parents often expressed a strong want to help their children but many felt they didn’t have time or didn’t know how.
This was interesting because I would have expected this to be different for people with different socio-economic backgrounds.
I was wrong.
It seemed to me that the wealthy parents cited a lack of time about as often as the poorer parents.
They also both equally cited frustration with not knowing how to help their children learn.
As far as I can remember this frustration was almost always expressed over math, both advanced and elementary.
This seemed to lead to a feeling of parents being overwhelmed, never having enough time and unable to casually help with unfamiliar or forgotten math tasks.
The Parent’s Relationship with the Community: Safe but Absent
Parents seemed to think the community in Wooster is good for their children but also that it feels somehow tired.
Wooster seems generally safe and has family activities.
I don’t recall any parent in any neighborhood saying that they feared for their children’s safety constantly in their neighborhoods.
Most were generally positive and mentioned different community events, both public and private, that they would attend with their children.
They seemed to know about special things to do, usually with different parents knowing of different unique things.
All together the parents I talked to knew of many more events than I was aware even existed in Wooster.
The general community feels like it has lost a soulful connection to the schools and school activities.
Some parents felt a kind of disconnect with the community in relation to the schools and their children’s activities though.
Some of these parents also felt this has led to a collapse of funding and fund raising for teams, leaving parents to pay the difference.
This seemed particularly common in parents with children in sports.
But even beyond sports some parents felt Wooster had a missing sense of school spirit, special pride, and a united community to support their children.
Author’s Notes:
My own opinion on the situation
I think the relationship between the parents and the administration is a decent working relationship but also one that could tip one way or another with a small push.
I think the relationship between the parents and the educators suffers from an invisible barrier blocking better communication and understanding that, if removed, would help the relationship and children flourish.
I think the relationship between the parents and the greater community has lost energy and is coasting slowly towards a grey world of being fine but missing a soulful connection, if left this way an invisible barrier like that between the parents and the educators will form.
[This article was originally published July 29th, 2025]
This is only one side of the public school situation in Wooster.
At the end of August I will present the view from the educators.
For September, the view from the district administration.
I want to present every side.
Political Statement:
As I am now a candidate for the Wooster city school board this article blurs the line between what is campaign material and what is community report.
So, because I have paid my time into it and because it may sway opinions for the election I now state:
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This is my election committee name.
Though this might be considered a campaign post, my personal hope is that this article helps bridge understanding in the community.
That has been the goal of this 4 month project all along.
Wooster Interpreter 
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